Lost & Found
I’M CURRENTLY SEARCHING FOR A GUY
who’s confident but not arrogant…
caring and sweet but not suffocating…
sensitive but not wimpy…
can speak his mind but not controlling…
knows what he wants and actually gets it…
funny without looking like a clown (who said clowns are funny anyway???! they scare me!)…
has a little air of mystery in his personality…
who doesn’t have to be a hottie but at least fit enough to keep up with my active lifestyle (hahaha)…
who smells really good even when left under the sun to sweat…
i’ve posted this paragraph on my profile a year ago. a lot of friends reacted. they said i am being to idealistic or that my standards are too high that’s why i couldn’t find myself a boyfriend. i tried to asses the traits that i’ve written here and decided that i wouldn’t lower my standards just because my friends told me to. i firmly stuck with what i want and what i believe is right for me…meaning a guy with these qualities…i waited. i didn’t lose hope because i know there will always be my MR.RIGHT out there just waiting for our paths to cross. i’ve met a few people who taught me a thing or two…(though no one can top what Usher aka Mr.Don’r-Talk-Just-Kiss taught me!)…just when i stopped actively searching for the right person for me, here comes Mr.Check 
i wouldn’t wanna call him Mr.Right or Mr.Perfect because it’s so overused. I’m calling him Mr.Check because he’s got a lot of checkmarks in my list of qualities that i look for in a guy :-) in fact he has all those that i’ve written above! i have been in cloud nine for the past week…i felt like He got tired of listening to my same old prayer asking for the right person to come my way, so He finally gave in! hehehe
i just hope that everything will be in place soon…i learned a lot through my long journey in search for this person. i hope i’ll be able to use all those learnings to make this one really work out and make this person mine for keeps…i’m keeping my fingers crossed…but i’ve never been this happy since Santa gave me "My First Barbie" for Christmas ;-D
September 5th, 2006 at 10:51 am
i know that you know that things doesn’t stop there so continue praying… and answers will never stop coming =)
September 7th, 2006 at 6:40 pm
thanks for that insight kurlie…yup i do pray that this is it…SANA nga…